Friday, December 7, 2007

Nakedness

I can't help but laugh when I think about my afternoon. I believe I have talked about jimjilbangs before... basically massive spas/saunas that are a craze here in Korea. For 6,000 won (about $6) you have free access to a full sauna, hot/cold rooms, these things that are sort of like giant kilns, smooth stones, etc. The hot/cold rooms, stone parts, kilns, etc are all coed (you put on these pajama things) and the saunas are single sex and naked. If you want to, you can spend the night on the floor of the coed area. Well, welcome to a Friday afternoon in Daejeon...

This was an insanely long week (finals are starting next week) and it has been cold (today we got our first snow), so I looked forward to a nice day at the sauna. Almost immediately after school, I met with 7 of my coworkers and headed to a jimbilbang. Note that some of these coworkers were good friends and others were people I rarely spend time outside of work with. I should also note that two of the women who went along were also parents of my students. And we all spent hours naked together. Awesome.

Well first we put on our bright orange pajama-like outfits and hung out in the hot/cold rooms. We basically got ourselves as sweaty as possible. We stayed in these rooms for hours (literally) before we took a break and got Korean rice drinks. We also took about 30 minutes for a norebang break (there was a karaoke area inside the sauna... these places have everything!). After belting some oldies, we spent some time in these charcoal heated kiln things. I think the best description I heard was a reverse igloo (they were shaped the same way but were insanely warm instead of cold). Then finally about 7 pm we made it down to the saunas.

There we spent over an hour of naked time: we moved between different temperature pools, scrubbed each other's backs, waded in cool water steam rooms, and relaxed in showers. The brave people (I was not included in this category) paid a little extra and got full body scrub downs by some aggressive workers. These scrubber ladies were also naked and attacked people's dead skin cells on tables in the main room. Older woman laid in heat caves clad only in face masks. Small children floated in the pools beside their moms or grandmas. It was quite a scene.

After I finished my sauna time I had about a half hour to wait until everyone else was done. I waited in the locker room which was a scene in itself. Most women hung out naked after they finished and watched TV or lotioned themselves. Some were partially dressed. For some reason there were many children around tonight. The scene that captured my attention the most was a naked grandmother and her toddler-aged pajama-clad grandson. It was so fascinating to see the two of them interact. She seemed to have no qualms jumping around the room with her grandson on her back. She literally bounced around in circles with him on her back and her stomach flapping for about 20 minutes trying to get him to fall asleep. She was completely unfazed when he batted her nipples. She had no problem letting him fall asleep on her bare lap. It was so strange. And yet there was something so freeing and natural about the scene. The grandma had no shame and seemed secure in her own body.

Finally we left the jimjilbang about 9 pm to go get dinner... 9 pm!!! Almost 5 hours after we arrived!!! The longest I had ever been before was about an hour and a half. So, moral of my evening: 5 hours naked with all the people I work with= hysterical adventures! Haha. What a great night.

Oh how far away from home I am.

5 comments:

Heather C. said...

OMG, I love it!!! It sounds like you are melding well into korean life and having a blast!!

makes me so happy to hear lillers! miss you like crazy, but so lucky to hear about all these good things going on.

Mwah!

Gail said...

That is great! So glad to hear that you're really settling into Korean life. Can't wait to hear more stories my friend.I miss you much and hope to talk to you once I catch up on sleep post-finals (wish me luck this week!)

Mr and Mrs L said...

Okay, when you said that two of the women who went to the jimjabang were also mothers of your students, I thought to myself: yeah, Susan has a daughter in Sarah's class. But Kyunghae doesn't have kids here anymore. Weird. And then I realized the second person was me!!! Holy moly, how did that happen? All of a sudden I have a daughter in grade 10. Kind of funny how we always think of ourselves as younger than we actually are. Anyway, great entry. I love it. You captured the jimjabang perfectly! And have I told you lately how great you are to work work? And hang out naked with?? tee hee...

Mr and Mrs L said...

Okay, when you said that two of the women who went to the jimjabang were also mothers of your students, I thought to myself: yeah, Susan has a daughter in Sarah's class. But Kyunghae doesn't have kids here anymore. Weird. And then I realized the second person was me!!! Holy moly, how did that happen? All of a sudden I have a daughter in grade 10. Kind of funny how we always think of ourselves as younger than we actually are. Anyway, great entry. I love it. You captured the jimjabang perfectly! And have I told you lately how great you are to work work? And hang out naked with?? tee hee...

Mr and Mrs L said...

Okay, when you said that two of the women who went to the jimjabang were also mothers of your students, I thought to myself: yeah, Susan has a daughter in Sarah's class. But Kyunghae doesn't have kids here anymore. Weird. And then I realized the second person was me!!! Holy moly, how did that happen? All of a sudden I have a daughter in grade 10. Kind of funny how we always think of ourselves as younger than we actually are. Anyway, great entry. I love it. You captured the jimjabang perfectly! And have I told you lately how great you are to work work? And hang out naked with?? tee hee...